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Dear Darling Dress Code

ST JAMES'S · SMART & ELEGANT

The dress code at Dear Darling is smart dress required: Smart & Elegant — heels for ladies, leather shoes for gents. No trainers, sportswear, caps, sandals or shorts. The door team at 91 Jermyn Street, St James's SW1Y 6JB has the final say on the night, so plan your outfit around the strictest version of the rule. Doors open 10 pm on Thursday, Friday, Saturday and Sunday, and groups with a table booking arrive together and are seated by the club's team.

What gentlemen wear to Dear Darling

  • A well-fitted shirt
  • Smart trousers
  • Leather shoes: Derby, Oxford or city shoes

What ladies wear to Dear Darling

  • A cocktail dress or a stylish going-out outfit
  • Heels

Refused at the door

Trainers, sportswear, caps, sandals and shorts.

On the night

  • Leather shoes are the rule for gentlemen, so leave the fashion trainers at home.
  • Shorts and sandals are refused even on warm nights.
  • Unsure about one piece? Message us a photo before the night and we will tell you honestly.

Dress codes at Dear Darling and other St James's clubs

ClubDress codeDoors
Mistress of MayfairSmart dress required7 pm – 3 am
Reign ShowclubSmart to upscale10 pm – 4 am
Dear Darling (this club)Smart dress required10 pm – 3 am
Scotch of St JamesSmart dress required10 pm – 4 am

More on what to wear in the London nightclub dress code guide.


Frequently asked questions

Can I wear trainers to Dear Darling?
No. Trainers are refused, along with sportswear, caps, sandals and shorts. Gentlemen should wear leather shoes such as Derbys, Oxfords or city shoes.
What should women wear to Dear Darling?
A cocktail dress or a stylish going-out outfit, with heels.
Can I wear shorts to Dear Darling in summer?
No. Shorts and sandals are on the refused list all year.

Also at Dear Darling: Booking a table · Venue overview